Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Let the <strike>Procrastination</strike> Planning Begin!

So, I've already told a few people, and it's not like it should be a really huge surprise to anyone (come on people, we've spent the past few months looking at houses, you do the math), but for the benefit of those of you I haven't actually spoken to over the past few days, this weekend Joanna and I decided to get married.

Well, that's really not entirely accurate. We decided we were eventually going to get married a while back. This weekend we actually started buckling down and start the mechanics of the whole thing, setting dates, talking about venues, ranking our friends and family in order of who's the most likely to give us the best gifts, allowing Joanna's elderly relatives to breathe a little easier about the fact that we're moving in together, etc.

Anyway, the event itself will be sometime in late March or early April, somewhere in the Boston area. We're thinking a reasonably small guest list (which starts to sound way less small once you take into account that just the bare minimum required family members already brings you to 30 people, and that doesn't even count our friends), and we're going to make a concerted effort to NOT turn into one of those couples whose life becomes completely and totally centered around planning what is in the end after all just a fairly large party.

Now I just have to get used to the idea of referring to Joanna as my fiance instead of my girlfriend. I suppose I'll get used to that just in time to start getting used to the idea of referring to her as my wife ;-)


  1. Well done there, Mr G.
    The one to make sure of is not to call your wife your girlfriend, I've seen a few punches thrown over that...

  2. Congratulations! I'm so happy for the two of you, it seems like a perfect match.
    And for the record, we still laugh when we have to say "wife" or "husband".

  3. Congrats! Remember to negotiate a gadget budget :)

  4. grats man! wife still sounds weird to me. i always use the term "wifey". it seems more appropriate. =)

  5. Congratulations! One does eventually get used to being a husband, but the wedding ring remains an awesome toy to fiddle with for at least six and a half years, in my experience.

  6. Congrats, dude! (Yes, I know, late to the party.) Good to keep things in perspective, though. If folks would devote half as much time and dedication to their marriages as they do their weddings, well ... it'd be a better world. As I was told recently, "A wedding is precisely like a funeral in that it is *not* for the benefit of the guest[s] of honor."